Eurythmics – Don’t Ask Me Why

Released in 1989, “Don’t Ask Me Why” was the second single from Eurythmics’ seventh studio album, We Too Are One. Written by Annie Lennox and David A. Stewart and produced by Stewart with Jimmy Iovine, the song presented a more restrained and emotionally bruised side of the duo’s sound.

The song centres on the bitter end of a relationship, with Lennox addressing someone who has caused disappointment and emotional damage. Rather than offering an explanation or attempting to repair the relationship, the narrator has reached the point where there is simply nothing left to say. The repeated question in the title becomes almost dismissive, reflecting the finality of her decision.

Annie Lennox delivers the vocal with a mixture of sadness, anger and cool detachment. Her performance gradually intensifies, giving the song an emotional depth that contrasts beautifully with the polished arrangement. David Stewart’s guitar work and the carefully constructed pop production create a rich backdrop without overwhelming Lennox’s voice.

There is a particularly striking contrast between the song’s elegant, melodic surface and its deeply unhappy subject matter. The music feels sophisticated and almost comforting, while the lyrics describe a relationship that has effectively reached its end. That tension gives “Don’t Ask Me Why” much of its appeal.

The song remains one of the more emotionally direct recordings from We Too Are One, capturing Eurythmics at their most mature and reflective while showcasing Lennox’s extraordinary ability to convey heartbreak without resorting to melodrama.

The song peaked at No. 25 in the UK charts on 18th November 1989.