Story Behind The Song

Released in 1987, “If I Was Your Girlfriend” was one of the most distinctive tracks from Prince’s acclaimed double album Sign O’ the Times. Written, arranged and produced by Prince, the song demonstrated his willingness to explore intimacy, gender identity and emotional vulnerability in ways that were unusual for mainstream pop.

The song imagines a relationship in which Prince could occupy the role of a girlfriend, allowing him to become closer to his partner and understand her feelings from an entirely different perspective. The provocative premise is matched by an intensely intimate performance, with Prince using an unusually high-pitched vocal that adds to the song’s sense of ambiguity and emotional tension. Sparse keyboards, programmed percussion, synthesiser textures and atmospheric effects create a hypnotic backdrop, allowing the vocal and lyrics to remain central.

Rather than following a conventional pop structure, the recording gradually develops through repeated phrases and shifting textures, creating an almost dreamlike atmosphere. Prince’s production is deliberately spacious, giving the song an unsettling yet deeply sensual quality.

“If I Was Your Girlfriend” became a notable UK chart entry in 1987 and remains one of the most critically admired recordings from Sign O’ the Times. Its unconventional subject matter, innovative production and fearless performance demonstrated Prince’s extraordinary ability to challenge expectations while creating deeply personal music. Today, it is regarded as one of his most adventurous and emotionally complex songs of the 1980s.

It peaked at No. 20 in the UK Singles Chart on 4th July 1987.

Eighties Archive Song Number

EA-0207

Highest Chart Position

No. 20

Date Released

June 1987

Genre

Funk, Soul

Date Of UK Top 40 Entry

20th June 1987

Record Label

PAISLEY PARK

Catalogue Number

W 8334

ALL information on this page was obtained from numerous sources. These include The Official Charts website, Discogs, 45Cat, Polyhex, and many other sites.

Some images have been cleaned up using CHATGPT.

A-SIDE & B-SIDE COVERS

Prince - If I Was Your Girlfriend - UK 7'' Cover - Front
UK 7'' Cover - Front
Prince - If I Was Your Girlfriend - UK 7'' Cover - Back
UK 7'' Cover - Back

TRACK LISTING

A-Side If I Was Your Girlfriend (Edit) (3:46)
(Prince)
Produced By Prince
B-Side Shockadelica (3:29)
(Prince)
Produced By Prince

CHART PERFORMANCE

UK Top 40 Chart Run [5 Weeks] – 20th June 1987 – 18th July 1987
32
23
20
24
31

OFFICIALLY RELEASED VERSIONS

If I Was Your Girlfriend (Edit) (3:46)
If I Was Your Girlfriend (Album Version) (5:01)

See ALL releases of ‘If I Was Your Girlfriend’ on Discogs.

OFFICIAL VIDEO

LYRICS

“Look at the bargains over here, ladies”
Ooh, woah
Ooh-hoo
Oh yeah
Ooh-hoo

If I was your girlfriend
Would you remember
To tell me all the things you forgot
When I was your man?
Hey, hey, when I was your man?

If I was your best friend
Would you let me take care of you
And do all the things that only a best friend can? Oh
Only best friends can? (Ooh)

If I was your girlfriend
Ooh, ooh
If I was your girlfriend

If I was your girlfriend
Would you let me dress you?
I mean, help you pick out your clothes
Before we go out?
Not that you’re helpless
But sometimes, sometimes
Those are the things
That bein’ in love’s about

And if I was your one and only friend
Wouldn’t you run to me if somebody hurt you
Even if that somebody was me?
Yeah
Sometimes, I trip on how happy
We could be, please

If I was your girlfriend
Ooh, oh
Ooh-ooh-ooh
If I was your girlfriend

Would you let me wash your hair?
Could I make you breakfast sometime?
Or then, could we just hang out? I mean
Could we go to a movie and cry together?
‘Cause to me, baby, that would be so fine
Woo-hoo

(If I was your girlfriend)
Baby, can I dress you?
I mean, help you pick out your clothes
Before we go out?
(If I was your girlfriend)
Listen, girl, I ain’t sayin’ you’re helpless
But sometimes, sometimes
Those are the things
That bein’ in love’s about
(Sugar, sugar)
Sugar, do you know what I’m sayin’ to you this evening?
(If I was your girlfriend)
Maybe you think I’m being a little self-centered
But I, I said I want to be
(Sugar, sugar)
All of the things you are to me
(If I was your girlfriend)
Surely, surely, you can see

Is it really necessary for me to go out of the room
Just because you wanna undress?
(If I was your girlfriend)
We don’t have to make children to make love
And we don’t have to make love to have an orgasm
(If I was your girlfriend)
Your body’s what I’m all about
(If I was your girlfriend) Can I see you? I’ll show you
(If I was your girlfriend) Why not?
You can do it because I’m your friend, I’d do it for you
(If I was your girlfriend)
Of course I’d undress in front of you
And when I’m naked, what shall I do?
(If I was your girlfriend)
How can I make you see that it’s cool?
Can’t you just trust me?
If I was your girlfriend, you could
(If I was your girlfriend) Oh, yeah, I think so
Listen, for you, naked, I would dance a ballet
(If I was your girlfriend) Would that get you off?
Then tell me what will
If I was your girlfriend, would you tell me?
(If I was your girlfriend)
Would you let me see you naked, then?
Would you let me give you a bath?
(If I was your girlfriend)
Would you let me tickle you so hard
You’d laugh and laugh?
And would you, would you let me kiss you there?
(If I was your girlfriend)
You know, down there where it counts
I’ll do it so good, I swear I’ll drink every ounce
And then I’ll hold you tight and hold you long
(If I was your girlfriend)
And together, we’ll stare into silence
And we’ll try to imagine what it looks like
Yeah, we’ll try to imagine what, what silence looks like
Yeah, we’ll, we’ll try to imagine what silence looks like
Yeah, we’ll try

Written By Prince

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